Women agrees to change her identity/face for her Husband Love

Unbelievable as it may sound, there is a woman in our world who is ready to forego her identity by having her face 'modified' according to the pattern devised by her husband. Putting aside women's lib she has given a new angle to women's loyalty.

China's Chongqing Business News has recently carried the story of a man named Zhao Gang, 32, who lost his wife three years ago in a car mishap. He himself was injured so badly that he had to spend six months in a hospital. Once discharged from there, he resolved to keep the memory of her late wife alive by never marrying again. (Some even otherwise consider marriage not a word, but a sentence!)

"As a matter of principle I should have died with my sweetheart, but to remarry will mean sheer infidelity with the departed soul," Zhao would reply to his friends and relatives whenever pressed by them to take a second wife. "Thirty-two years is too short an age to adopt celibacy," they would, in turn, urge him.

Swayed by the sustained pressure of his near and dear ones, Zhao at last agreed to wed again but put forward a strenuous condition which was tantamount to an outright refusal. He told his parents that he would marry with that woman only who resembled her former wife. He thought it to be nigh impossible for them to find such a woman but, after hectic search, they did succeed in locating one. Now Zhao had little ground to remain single. He married and later said, "I took Kim as my wife only because she looks to me a bit like her predecessor and I want to have a chance to make up for my mistakes."

However, soon after the marriage, on 'close observation,' he found that Kim needed minor 'touching' to become the replica of the woman imprinted on his heart. He, therefore, persuaded her to undergo plastic surgery if she wanted to stay with him. This was a callous demand and was arguably turned down by Kim. "You had accepted me on 'as-it-is, where-it-is' basis," she pleaded apparently to keep Zhao within limits. Yet, he was hellbent to establish his 'writ' in the house and prove the veracity of an orthodox view, "A man may brave opinion; a woman must submit to it."

Ultimately, the far-sighted, condescending and prudent lady melted belying the absolutely unrealistic male view that if you prolong the first syllable of woman, she becomes the woe of man. Kim consented to the surgery thrust upon her saying, "I feel complicated. I don't want to become some one else's shadow, but I also don't want to lose my family. Now I only hope that the surgery will not make me look ugly." Zhao, on the other hand, acknowledges, "Maybe, it's more or less unfair to her, but she has expressed her willingness and I will embrace her with all my love."

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